Yoruba Tribe is one of the three most recognized tribes in Nigeria and West Africa. At the heart of the Yoruba customs is the Igbeyawo ceremony which means “taking a wife”, where unity reigns supreme. During this event the bride will be officially handed to the groom and his family, where she will be cared for. The Yoruba view marriage as a sacred and happy occasion and entails bonding with the families. The groom and his groomsmen will prostrate (dobale), seeking acceptance into bride’s family and showing gratitude to the bride’s family for agreeing to give their daughter’s hand in marriage. Symbolizing unity and respect, the groom’s family will present gifts to Funmilayo’s family. This process is called the Idana and marks the beginning of the marriage journey. Dressed in the elegance of Aso Ebi, honoring Yoruba craftsmanship. Guiding the traditional ceremony will be an Alaga, an experienced officiant who ensures the ceremony’s proper execution.
Igbeyawo: Please refer to the above explanation
Traditional Attire: Both the bride and groom, including their families and friends, often wear traditional Yoruba attire during the wedding ceremonies. For the bride, this may include a gele (head tie), iro (wrapper), buba (blouse), and accessories like beads and jewelry. The groom typically wears an agbada or buba and sokoto (traditional robes and trousers) with matching accessories.
Finding the Husband: The groom is seated amidst his friends and the bride will be instructed by the alaga to look for the groom in the crowd and make him wear a cap. Whilst she is singing a song that goes “Eni fila mi bawo ori re lomi a de”, meaning anyone my cap fit in will take it. This signifies she knows who she wants to get married to and is sure of it. After she fits the hat on the groom, the groom is then taken out of the crowd to seat with the bride.
Blessings & Prayers: The couples receive blessings from the elders and family members.
Vow Exchange: The couple exchanges vows.
Feasting and Celebration
Spraying of Money: Though not compulsory, it is customary for guests to spray the couple with money as a gesture of goodwill and prosperity. This is often accompanied by lively music and dancing.
A very special role like celebrating the couple, dress to impress, eat, drink and merry.
Please refer to the Dress Code page.